The Role of Parents in the Development of a Child's Faith

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by: DCE Aaron Finkel

02/10/2025

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In Proverbs 22:6, we are reminded of the profound responsibility parents have in shaping the spiritual lives of their children: "Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old, he will not depart from it." This verse highlights the lasting impact parents have in guiding their children on their faith journey. As the first and most influential spiritual role models, parents set the tone for their children's understanding of and relationship with God.

In Deuteronomy 6:6-7, we find a powerful reminder of how to nurture faith in our children: "These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up." 

This passage encourages us to weave faith into the fabric of everyday life.  It’s not just about teaching children what to believe; it’s about living out those beliefs in practical, visible ways.

  • One way to nurture your child’s faith is through prayer. Make it a natural part of your family life—praying together before meals, at bedtime, or during moments of joy and challenge.
  • Encourage your children to share their thoughts and prayers, showing them that they can talk to God about anything, big or small. Reading Scripture together as a family is another meaningful practice. 
  • Share stories from the Bible that are meaningful to you and discuss how God’s Word applies to your lives. This helps your children see the relevance of Scripture and understand how it speaks to their personal experiences.
  • Attending church together is an important aspect of nurturing faith as well. Regular participation in worship services, Sunday school, and other church activities shows your children that being part of a faith community is vital. Worship together, and let your children see that being part of the church family is an important way to express love and devotion to God. 
  • Serving others is another powerful way to model faith. Involve your children in acts of  service—whether helping a neighbor, volunteering at church, or participating in community projects. Serving together teaches children the joy and importance of putting others' needs before their own, just as Jesus taught us.  
  • Intentional conversations about faith are also essential. Encourage your children to ask questions about God, faith, and life, and be ready to offer age-appropriate answers.

These discussions help children see how faith influences all aspects of life and encourage them to develop their own personal relationship with God.

A home filled with love, grace, and faith is the ideal environment for spiritual growth. Colossians 3:12-14 encourages us to "clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience. Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity." By modeling these virtues in your interactions with your children and others, you create an atmosphere where faith can truly thrive.

Parents play a unique and powerful role in a child’s faith journey. By modeling your own faith, engaging in meaningful conversations, and creating a loving, faith-filled environment, you lay a strong spiritual foundation that will guide your children throughout their lives. My prayer is that all parents embrace this sacred  responsibility with joy and dedication, trusting that God will bless their efforts and work through them to nurture the next generation of believers.

In Christ's Service,

Aaron Finkel, DCE

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In Proverbs 22:6, we are reminded of the profound responsibility parents have in shaping the spiritual lives of their children: "Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old, he will not depart from it." This verse highlights the lasting impact parents have in guiding their children on their faith journey. As the first and most influential spiritual role models, parents set the tone for their children's understanding of and relationship with God.

In Deuteronomy 6:6-7, we find a powerful reminder of how to nurture faith in our children: "These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up." 

This passage encourages us to weave faith into the fabric of everyday life.  It’s not just about teaching children what to believe; it’s about living out those beliefs in practical, visible ways.

  • One way to nurture your child’s faith is through prayer. Make it a natural part of your family life—praying together before meals, at bedtime, or during moments of joy and challenge.
  • Encourage your children to share their thoughts and prayers, showing them that they can talk to God about anything, big or small. Reading Scripture together as a family is another meaningful practice. 
  • Share stories from the Bible that are meaningful to you and discuss how God’s Word applies to your lives. This helps your children see the relevance of Scripture and understand how it speaks to their personal experiences.
  • Attending church together is an important aspect of nurturing faith as well. Regular participation in worship services, Sunday school, and other church activities shows your children that being part of a faith community is vital. Worship together, and let your children see that being part of the church family is an important way to express love and devotion to God. 
  • Serving others is another powerful way to model faith. Involve your children in acts of  service—whether helping a neighbor, volunteering at church, or participating in community projects. Serving together teaches children the joy and importance of putting others' needs before their own, just as Jesus taught us.  
  • Intentional conversations about faith are also essential. Encourage your children to ask questions about God, faith, and life, and be ready to offer age-appropriate answers.

These discussions help children see how faith influences all aspects of life and encourage them to develop their own personal relationship with God.

A home filled with love, grace, and faith is the ideal environment for spiritual growth. Colossians 3:12-14 encourages us to "clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience. Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity." By modeling these virtues in your interactions with your children and others, you create an atmosphere where faith can truly thrive.

Parents play a unique and powerful role in a child’s faith journey. By modeling your own faith, engaging in meaningful conversations, and creating a loving, faith-filled environment, you lay a strong spiritual foundation that will guide your children throughout their lives. My prayer is that all parents embrace this sacred  responsibility with joy and dedication, trusting that God will bless their efforts and work through them to nurture the next generation of believers.

In Christ's Service,

Aaron Finkel, DCE

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